Oh the things I've seen!

Part of being clairvoyant means visions, some during a reading, some out of the blue. Because of their enlightening nature they often make me laugh. When you see what is REALLY going on under it all it makes so much sense that I laugh thinking, "Of course! How did I miss that?!"

Some things that I've seen were so weird that I needed the help of who I was reading to figure it out. One of my favorites was reading a friend as a rose. He and I were in a class together and I had just met him. We knew next to nothing about each other. I knew that he was a smoker and a retired architect, other than that, zippo.

When I went to read his rose I saw the most peculiar thing; the petals were black and white checker board. At first I told myself that I had messed up, shows you where my confidence was back then. When I said this to myself/my higher self, it wouldn't change. I realized that this was on purpose. So I thought, "well, I'll just tell him what I see." So I told him and as I said it I also found myself saying, "like a court jester's hat". As soon as I said that, he burst into laughter and said, "oh boy, that's me alright!" As I came to get to know him better I found that it couldn't have been more true. I also am a bit of a court jester and that is why I saw what I did, we had it in common.

I've seen past lives with both of my parents and my sister; my dad and I were Quakers together, my mom was my ballet coach in Russia, and my sister kept me company in a dungeon after my tongue was cut out. Each of these lives displayed dynamics that explain a lot about my relationship to each family member. Seeing things I've done or been is often very fun, but it's always enlightening. The main thing that I've seen/felt/know is that your past lives are only interesting to you because you have an energetic connection to them. So in an effort to not bore you, I'll give a quick list of some things that I've seen. I've been a cowboy, a princess, a rich spoiled brat, an artist, a monk, a nun, many peasants, an African tribesman who was telepathic with elephants, a woman who inherited a winery and was beat to death, and the list goes on.

I've known I was gonna win something many times. One of the funnier times I was actually at a psychic fair when I knew I was going to win. At the registration table everyone was given a raffle ticket and every hour a small prize was given away. When the voice would come on the loud speaker you had to strain to hear the name being called. I was at a hypnotherapy booth when I found myself saying, "hold on a minute." The speaker crackled on and we heard a voice say, "Molly Marchetti is this hour's winner." And I said to the person at the hypnotherapy booth, "that's me, I'd like to go see what I won." I don't even know why I said "hold on a minute", the speaker hadn't even come on yet! Needless to say everyone, including the friend I had gone there with, was stunned. I was stunned! I won an astrology program that was so complicated I've never been able to use it, but the experience has stayed with me.

I usually know when I am going to win at Tarot bingo. I am part of a Tarot meet up group that gets together once a month to talk Tarot and play bingo. We play for Tarot decks, books about the Tarot, and other Tarot oriented things. I've only won three or four times, but I usually knew when I was going to be me.

I also saw the future husband of my then roommate. I wasn't even intentionally looking for anything. We worked together but in different offices on the same floor. She worked for the management side of the business and I worked for development. She was the building's concierge and was in the lobby everyday for 2 hours. She would often come to my office before heading back to her own. My desk was the reception desk in front of two clear glass doors, I could see all of the way down the hallway. One of the people I saw on occasion was a tall good looking man in a uniform with salt and pepper hair and a nice tan. He always went into the other office so I never found out what kind of uniform he wore.

One night on the phone just before we moved in together she was lamenting how she was over 30 and saw no hope in sight of every finding Mr. Right. As I spoke to console her, saying that she was wonderful and would meet a great guy one day I realized that I was actually seeing something. I saw a man standing over her in her bedroom looking at her like he was the luckiest guy in the world. I could feel his intense adoration and her happiness. The man was the good looking tan workman from the building. I had seen him that day, so I chalked it up to that.

The next day she came into my office after her lobby shift glowing and grinning. The first thing she said was, "that Jake is so funny." (I changed his name for the purpose of this story). And I had no idea who she was talking about. I said, "Who's Jake?" She said, "the elevator repair man, you know that tall tan guy that comes into our office sometimes." I suddenly realized that this was the guy and that she in fact liked him, I hadn't yet told her that he was who I saw. So I asked her if he'd asked her out. She told me not yet, but she could tell that he wanted to. And here's the kicker, she said, "But you know my rule, I won't go out with anyone who works in the building and he does work here." I knew then that I had to tell her. So I blurted out, "HE'S THE GUY!" She look confused when she asked me what guy. I told her about the vision and that he was the guy and that she at least had to go on one date in case my vision was true.

They were married less than a year later.

I've seen lots of other stuff, I do give readings professionally so I am bound to see some interesting things. I try not to read people when I am not being paid to unless I am trying to find healing in myself. Sometimes I can't help it, some people project and others think loud, but I try to keep it to myself.

A few years ago I started seeing sparks of light on people. They get them when they are suddenly aware of wanting to figure something out or when they have an "ah Ha!" moment. I see the lights on myself sometimes too. I see them on actors on tv sometimes, but very rarely. I'm never sure if this is information that I should share. If freaks some people out.

I hope someday to see something remarkable for those of you reading this blog, and don't worry it won't end up in this blog unless I see you winning the lottery, I can't pass up that kind of press...

Visualize Whirled Peas...

The following is a short 10 minute guided meditation to help enhance your visualizing skills. Most of these meditations involve seeing/hearing/feeling/etc. energy and it helps for you to know what it will look like. Often when we start seeing clairvoyantly, we, I know I did, expect it to look differently than it does, this helps you see the nature of how it will look.

Protect yourself before you wreck yourself…

A lot of clairvoyants shut themselves down to their ability because of discomfort. They feel everyone’s energy around them all of the time, which can be really unpleasant because you can’t always control who you are around. Also they feel things like headaches, nausea, fear, exhaustion, etc. that are not their own. One thing that a lot of these people have never learned is how to protect your energy. If you do any of my guided meditations you may find an increased sensitivity to the energy around you, the following meditation will help protect you from taking on the energy of other people. The goal is to see, hear, know energy and not be debilitated by it.

I’d like to give you a little information about the meditation before you dive in. It’s based on a concept that many people are teaching, mostly graduates of The Berkeley Psychic Institute in the Bay Area. The key to this meditation is a rose. If you have not done the “Aide to Visualization” meditation and have any trouble with visualizing, you may want to do that mediation first. Also it might help to do the sizing your aura meditation first too because if your aura is too big or too small you might have difficulty with the protection meditation.

The rose is considered the universal symbol of love in the collective unconscious. The energy of a rose is the highest vibration of any flower. A rose made out of energy has that same vibration. So in this meditation a rose is going to act as an ambassador to the world on your behalf by absorbing any negative energy coming toward you. It will also act as a sort of subconscious reminder point of where your energy ends and another person’s begins.

Coming Soon...

Clairvoyants Are People Too

This post is a little nod to my big sis. We used to love that show, "Kids Are People Too." She even had the Tee-shirt. The other day we had a giggle over something stupid that I said that evolved into the joke, "strangers are people too." It got me thinking, one of the misconceptions about clairvoyants is that we are all so serious because of the stuff that we see. And, yeah, sometimes you see some horrible things, usually from past lives, but still. It's because of all of this serious work that we need to laugh.



Viewing energy and shifting it are so much better when you are in a lighthearted state. Energy just moves when it's at a higher vibration, and laughter is one of the highest. That is why laughter is the best medicine. People have laughed themselves well from cancer. I'll bet people have prevented cancer from laughing, but it's not just laughing that does it. It's the lightheartedness that induces laughter that is the key. It's the amusement of our human existence. We are funny, if you think about it. There are so many things that we humans do on a daily basis that if you were visiting you would think were pretty wacky.



My point is that clairvoyants aren't mystical beings that can't relate to things non-spiritual. I mean I like junk food and movies and computer games as much as the next person. We are people too because all people are clairvoyant! I guess I am just saying that sometimes because I do this for a living people expect a monk of sorts. I do meditate and do yoga and try not to give in to childish behavior, but I also sleep in when I can and watch Saturday Night Live and keep saying that one of these days I'm going to lose all of this weight that I gained, I just really like bacon.

Another thing about us being like everyone else is that sometimes people think that I am judging or looking down on the less spiritual things they talk about, believe me, nothing could be further from the truth. I don't only read spiritual books, I go to rock concerts, I watch Lost, and I am a huge fan of The Simpsons. I assure you that if you want to have a John Hughes Movie night or a Harry Potter marathon, I am your girl. Having said all of that, I would love to see a good movie/tv show that gets past lives right or shows how most of us really see energy or concentrates on the healing side of clairvoyance or most of all acknowledges that anyone can learn how to do this. I'm not sure how interesting it would be to anyone but me and a handful of others though.


I suppose I am not the yard stick by which to measure all of us.... but still, I am sure that other clairvoyants like bacon too.

Self-Healing

I came to learn about my clairvoyant side as a tool for self-healing. As I learned it, the less "issues" that you have clouding your vision (or distracting your spirit) the clearer you get information. It's really awesome because every time you shift an issue, you feel really joyful AND you feel more clear clairvoyantly!

I always associated the word "healing" with the would "wound", it never occurred to me that there are other things that need healing. We walk around with the energy of misunderstandings all of the time, it's part of being human. Every time we walk away from an experience still angry, or hurt or fearful it stays with us in our space (body, chakras, aura, etc.). It pulls our focus subconsciously all of the time. And we have thousands of these little moments floating around us pulling our focus all of the time. It gets worse when we encounter another situation that is dynamically the same. Because then our conscious focus is on it, but not really, our focus is on the pain or the anger or the whatever we held onto and we react the same way again, just adding more misunderstanding to the experience.

What we are supposed to be doing is seeing these experiences as they happen truthfully as if we are a blank canvas or an empty vessel, impossible, right? If we learn how to "view" the experience in this neutral state then we are able to shift the pain or anger or misunderstanding to understanding. You can view this clairvoyantly and energy work helps you to shift that energy. That is why you feel so joyful afterward because you are literally unburdening yourself. This is what I wrote about in my book that will be coming out soon (I hope) and what I teach. I am not claiming that it is my method, I am just claiming to understand it and it's power. It is my personal experience of this method's power that makes me want to share it with the world. It flat out changed my life for the better.

I am a huge advocate for self-healing of any kind. Any time you take on the task of dealing with your own issues as opposed to having someone else help you, it's going to be more powerful. I do admit there are times when you will get in your own way and truly do need a professional to help you, but if you are working on it yourself on a constant basis when you do need to call on someone to help, it will be so much easier. This is also why I like to teach this method because it really encourages you to take your life by the reins, in short it empowers you.

I'm not saying don't get readings from other people, by all means, you gotta start somewhere. But I encourage everyone to at least try working on their own energy. I thought I'd be a total failure at it and I couldn't have been more wrong. I know some people think that psychics and all that they do are ungodly, but this work brought me back to God in a way that I never thought possible. I think the more capable you make yourself of loving, and this work really does do that, the closer you become to God's goal for us.

I believe, body and soul, that being an advocate for self-healing is my purpose on this planet. It feels like I am meant to "rally the troops". I would never have known this if I didn't do this work on myself, and knowing my purpose is, well, awesome. There is plenty of room for all of us to become masters and be our own gurus. Let's hear it for enlightenment! Rah, Rah, Om!

The Truth About Clairvoyants

I guess all I can say is the truth about clairvoyants as I have discovered so far. I'm sure that I wont' be able to get to all of the things that even I know in this posting, let alone all of the things that I don't know (and lets face it, who knows when I'll get to those...)

One of the reasons that I wanted to write on this topic is that I feel that there is a lot of room for more information on the subject mostly because it differs from person to person. The one thing that I know is true of all people though, is that we are all clairvoyant to some degree. Some are born with a direct line of access to it and some need some guidance to develop their awareness of it, but everyone is born with at least a kernel of clairvoyance.

All of us see things differently and we see different things. The information won't be the same from clairvoyant to clairvoyant nor will the delivery system. Some folks hear the information, some see it, some feel it, some smell it, some taste it, some do all at the same time, some dream it, some have visions, sometimes it's not even possible to pin down how you got the information. We are all just reading energy and the energy is in whatever form it is in.

I don't know about other clairvoyants, but I need to meditate every day to keep in psychic shape. Don't get me wrong, I don't always manage to do it, but I know that I need to. I am so much clearer when I do. And being clear is the same as being clairvoyant. Not to mention that I see things that I wasn't even looking for. I learn so much just by meditating a little bit. I learn about me, about energy in general, about the people around me, etc. In fact the other day I saw the coolest thing about the energy of anxiety and why it is an obstacle to manifesting, look for it in detail in an upcoming posting.

It isn't always easy, reading, not for me at least. That's why in readings I ask a lot of questions. There is a lot of information out there and in order to impart what it is that the client is asking for we sometimes need a lot of cross referencing clues. It's also why some clairvoyants use cards. I find that it focuses the information really well.

I heard a psychic on a t.v. show say, "I read energy and sometimes thoughts, I don't just pull facts out of thin air." I really liked that level of realism in a show. I do watch the shows Medium and Ghost Whisperer, but I feel frustrated with how many things on them I don't recognize or feel are sensationalized for ratings. It's true a lot of clairvoyants see dead people, but they see a lot of other stuff too. It seems unrealistic to me that someone who can see dead people so clearly that they look like living people and she can talk to them doesn't seem to see the energy of the people around her.

I guess Medium is a little more realistic, but it still centers around the fact that she only sees crimes. I have one psychic friend who says that when she first got really open clairvoyantly she got all kinds of useless information like how much her check would be before she ordered her meal. I used to know what song would be on the radio right before it would come on, how helpful is that? It's not like there is some cosmic overlord shooting us bolts of information that we need to know NOW! It's more like you are open to seeing/sensing the energy around you and some of it is just there with no particular purpose. Thank goodness you can usually tell when this is happening. Questions in a reading help wade through some of this flotsam.

It's so much easier to say what a clairvoyant isn't because of all of the misinformation out there. I am really trying to keep this positive, but I find myself wanting to say, "we don't do this, and we aren't like that..."

We don't see everything that is going to happen all of the time. There are things that are meant to happen that may be less than pleasant. Knowing about these things can affect whether they happen or not. But I do admit that I really hate it when some smart ass says, "you're psychic, why didn't you know that was going to happen?" Personally, I don't want to know everything that is going to happen. Movies are really boring when you know everything that is going to happen, I'll bet life is the same way.

More on this subject later, it's just too big for one post.

My name is Molly Marchetti, and I am a clairvoyant

It feels like coming out of a closet of some sort, writing this blog. I have to be so careful who I tell, gage what kind of preconceived or negative beliefs they may have about what it means. I am often surprised at the open minds that I meet, though. It gives me hope.

I, like all of you, was born clairvoyant, because we all are. I, like so many others, didn't know. It took many experiences and some training to see it (or more feel it). While growing up, I actually thought that I had no intuition. That somehow I had been born without it. I always felt insecure and preferred to let my older sister do all of my thinking, since she seemed to want the job and was better at it than me.

I learned about clairvoyance in general in the realm of using it as a tool for healing. My ex-husband who had always been interested in New Agey pursuits (trying to go out of body at will, past life regressions, energy work, etc.) asked me to be a guinea pig for a healing method that he had just learned. Up to this point I was a bad subject for this sort of thing. I tried a past life regression and was unable to get past 11 years old in this life. I was crap at letting go and trusting anything and I was afraid of my own shadow. Trying new things was something I felt allergic to.

After one session of this kind of energy work that he was doing, that was anchored in clairvoyance I felt like a different person. A happier person. A free-er person. It was like breathing again. It was like I had been wearing a football helmet all of my life and he took it off of me. No wonder I was afraid all of the time, I was bound up in the head!

I later learned this same technique at his urging and found that one of the reasons I was so afraid all of the time was that I was very sensitive to the world around me but had no idea how to protect myself. Once I learned how to govern my own energy, I was in a position to start looking around at the world. Once I knew how to keep myself safe, exploration and new things became exciting and fun. I found that the reason I thought I had no intuition was that I never felt safe to use it. Feeling safe and protected in your own head and heart are so much more crucial than I had ever thought. I took control of me.

For me turning on that clairvoyant light switch was like stepping up to the plate and embracing the life that I was cowering from. It is something that was so exciting for me that I am still riding that wave.

I have learned much since that first healing by my ex-husband and I have even more to learn still. One of the things that I learned is that wisdom comes through me as I write, hence a blog. I also have a book that will (hopefully) be coming out soon.

But now, on with the show...